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转:How Successful People Deal With Misfortune(励志文)  

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We all encounter misfortunes throughout life.  From small upsets to major catastrophes, they are bound to happen.  What you need to realize is that it is not the quantity or magnitude of these misfortunes that determine your level of success in life.  It is how you react to them.  In this article we will discuss how successful people deal with misfortune.

Don’t Speculate – Get the Facts

Many times when we are hit with a misfortune we tend to dramatize the problem beyond its real magnitude.  There is no point in stressing out over speculation about how severe the problem might be.  The most effective way to deal with the situation is to stay calm and gather the facts.  Assess the true nature of the damage before you start panicking about how you will deal with it.

Everything is Relative

After you get the facts you may realize that the situation is not really as bad as you once thought.  This happens more often than most people realize and that is why it is so important to gather the facts first before you start worrying about it.  For those occasions where the situation is indeed as bad or worse than you thought, put it in perspective.  Everything is relative and things can always be worse.

Don’t Spend Too Much Time Mourning

Humans are emotional beings.  It is natural to mourn after a major misfortune happens to us.  But be careful about not wasting too much time mourning or letting depression steal your energy and time.  Only you will know how long you must mourn, but be conscientious of the fact that you must move on.

Accept Your Losses

The best way to get past the state of mourning and back to your normal life is to accept your losses.  Don’t think too much about why this happened to you.  Accept it for what it is - some things are just unexplainable – and move on.

Take an Immediate Positive Step

A key component of a fast recovery is to take an immediate positive step as soon as you can.  Even a small step that will take you in the direction of recovery can be helpful.  What is most important is to get a positive momentum going again.

Count Your Blessings

We all have something to be thankful for.  One of the best times to count your blessings is when misfortune strikes.  Think about all the good things you have going for you.  This will help alleviate the pain that comes with misfortunes.

It All Happens For a Reason

In the end, keep in mind that everything happens for a reason, even when you don’t understand the reason.  Many people have found more significance and purpose in life after a major catastrophe.  You never know, a few years down the road you may be thankful for having experienced misfortune.

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